Sex: Does not matter
I prefer only serious slaves. Cleanliness is next to Godliness, in the presence of a Goddess, make an effort. It is customary to arrive with a gift, it doesn’t need to be of great expense but a token of your gratitude. Any remaining fees to be paid will need to be presented in an envelope. If you have specific toys you would like to use, why not bring them with you? And for sissies, you will be expected to, at the very least, provide a pair of heels that fit you.